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Post by Pattycakes on Mar 17, 2009 11:47:48 GMT -5
Emily's a girl though. She's probably better with these things then I am, plus a girl to girl convo perhaps is best?
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Post by *emily on Mar 17, 2009 11:53:14 GMT -5
well, i'd be happy to listen, but i'll also just make the blanket statement for anyone else who's in a situation like this. no matter how unaffected you think you'll be by being in a relationship like this, it's almost impossible to stay that way. being in a relationship like this isn't healthy because both people in a relationship should be committed to each other and treat each other with respect. you just can't do that in a 'friends with benefits" situation.
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Post by emmaron on Mar 17, 2009 12:05:54 GMT -5
thats the wrong thing i did and i lost my best friend and i feel i should do sucide or something....
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Post by *emily on Mar 17, 2009 12:14:23 GMT -5
i definitely think you need to talk to someone, emmaron. maybe a parent or family member or someone else you feel comfortable talking to. there are a lot of great places to turn to for help, but please don't do anything to hurt yourself. i know this seems like the worst thing right now, but you have a lot to live for. remember that, and please find someone to talk to.
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Post by emmaron on Mar 17, 2009 12:19:09 GMT -5
i am thinking about going to doctor or something..
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Post by *emily on Mar 17, 2009 12:21:46 GMT -5
that's a great idea. everyone needs a safe place that they can get things off their mind. just remember that no relationship is worth hurting yourself for, because a relationship worth having wouldn't make you feel that way.
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Post by emmaron on Mar 17, 2009 12:37:04 GMT -5
bloody hell thanks emily ........ it made think from different point of view ... your great and very nice person emily .. we don't even know each other but you helped me and now i feel a lot better now ... once again thank you very much ...god bless you
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Post by *emily on Mar 17, 2009 12:40:11 GMT -5
i'm glad i could help! just make sure you talk to someone whenever you feel bad like that. it's not good to keep feelings like that to yourself. your life is too important!  |
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Post by Megan on Mar 17, 2009 12:55:45 GMT -5
Whoa, just whoa, there bubba. I agree with Emily- find someone to talk to so whatever's in your head can work it's way out. There might be a man or two in your life worth hurting over, but there is NOBODY on this planet worth hurting yourself over.
*hugs*
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Post by *emily on Mar 17, 2009 13:09:26 GMT -5
perfectly put, meg and liann.
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